A Beginner’s Guide to Becoming a Sissy

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I am frequently asked about training ‘sissies’, which is one thing I do not do.  Just for those who are unaware, a sissy is a person  (usually a man) who adopts feminine-like behavior to the extreme, and takes part in stereotypical ‘feminine’ activities, often within the context of BDSM. It takes a lot to become a true sissy but this is a short ‘beginners’ guide that I have put together to help those who want to become a true sissy. Let’s take those first steps into sissidom together.
 
1.  Personality
Number one on my list is personality. I have seen so many sissies who just don’t have the correct attitude. You need to adopt ultra-feminine behavior. To help with this, I usually make my girls watch films based on the lives of transvestites first. A quick search on Google will pull up quite a few. This is just so you can see what it generally is like. Keeping a diary also helps by keeping those emotions at the forefront of your mind. Women are generally more emotional than men so this conditions the mind to become more feminine. It also helps to choose ‘womanly’ activities over the more stereotypical male ones. Maybe take up a form of dancing, or fashion design or baking is another popular option. It is also considered wise to remain in chastity whilst training. A number of devices can be purchased if this is required.
 
2.  Hair
If you are already blessed with long, beautiful locks, then lucky you. However, most beginner sissies do not have this luxury and have to find a quality wig. When choosing a wig, try to buy it in a store and it is also always preferential to choose a quality-made wig over a cheaper one. This is because the look, feel and movement of the hair will be much more realistic. Choosing a color that suits you is also very important. You can do this by trying on different coolers in the shop until you find the perfect match. The hair style is also important. Many wig specialists will be able to style the wig in the store to suit your face shape and personal style.
 
3.  Beauty
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder but if you have heavy, masculine features, makeup can really help to drastically change how your face looks. It can make your cheekbones stand out, slim your jaw line and nose and enhance your best features. It really is amazing. The core of any beauty regime is always the skin. If you have good skin, then you can work on the rest. Be sure to cleanse, moisturize and tone daily with quality products. There are many makeup tutorials online for transgender ladies which will also help sissies hide their more masculine features and enhance those beautiful feminine ones. Personal hygiene is also very important so be sure to shower or bathe as regularly as needed. And don’t forget your mani-pedi. Having a manicure and/or a pedicure really makes you feel ‘put together’. It also adds a very feminine touch.
 
4.  Clothes
Last but not least … clothes: the one thing that really makes a sissy. Some of my girls had brilliant fashion sense when they came to me. Others, sadly, did not and required much effort on my part to become what they are today. It is good to start with the undergarments. I think some nice pieces of lingerie such as satin panties or a lace bra really make you feel feminine. But ultimately, you are going to want to compact the panties and fill the bras. Breast forms are something you wear to shape your bras and provide breasts without the need for surgery. They also come in different sizes which is very useful. Vee strings are something I learnt about more recently but basically, they enable the wearer to tuck away any ‘unladylike’ parts whilst allowing the user to pee sitting down like a lady. Some of my girls have even employed the use of a waist trainer to accentuate that desired feminine waist. Ultimately you want to choose the best style for your body shape. Styling for your body shape takes time, practice and lots of effort. Shoes are the ultimate feminine weapon. The beauty of a high-heel never goes unnoticed but again, walking in these can take time, practice and effort. This is something you definitely have to practice. I advise to start with a low heel and work your way up to the desired height.
 

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