Convince him to let you try BBC !
Convince him to let you try BBC!
The steps below are designed to be fairly subtle, so that it allows the opportunity to back off and adjust, or go in a different direction, or even to drop the issue entirely if need be, at least for the time being. If you must drop it, then always try again later, and never give up. Give it time and space before trying again.
I am not the original author of these steps, and you may have seen something similar elsewhere. However, I have seriously modified the steps based on my own experiences in helping others.
There are a lot of white women who really would like nothing better than to get thoroughly blacked. There is nothing like sweet black cock to satisfy women of any race, and for those white women who acknowledge that, the problem then becomes how to get him to actually let you go black, rather than just living out the fantasy.
If you are in that category (a white woman who wants her guy to let her go black), and you are uncertain about how, and think it might be risky (i.e. his reaction could be very negative), then you must take it in the careful steps outlined below. Make adjustments along the way. No two guys are likely to react to everything in exactly the same way, so playing it by ear and making those adjustments is essential. Never forget that. It is very important.
Of course, an emphasis needs to be put on this: this is a guide only, and all guides need to be adjusted to suit individual needs and responses. But the key is to take it in steps so you can always adjust or backtrack if you must, depending on his reaction.
In undertaking the steps, you are trying to accomplish two things, really. One, of course, is getting him used to the idea of sweet delicious black cocks inside your white holes. The other is to get him used to the idea of your nudity, which in turn opens him to greater sexual freedom and excitement, which then leads him to be able to more likely consider letting you sample black cocks.
Step 1:
The very FIRST thing you must do is to absolutely make sure he KNOWS you love him. You don’t do that by just saying “Hey, I love you, now how about letting me becoming a black cock slut.” That is not going to work. SHOW him you love him, not just telling him. Do things for him that truly demonstrates you care about him and his well being and his emotions and his sexual pleasure.
Step 1 must become continued throughout this whole process, not just at the beginning, even though this is the only place it is mentioned. This is critical. Never forget doing this.
Attempt to keep, as much as you can, his white dick out of her pussy. Oh, I know, that can be difficult for you at first, as you will get very horny, but why do you think God gave you a middle finger? Use it to relieve yourself when you need to. For HIM, suck her COCK, kiss his lips, play with his fingers and tongue), and all that, and get him to cum from those things and NOT from your white pussy. When he cums from the things you do to him like that, he needs to feel good about it, but also he needs to feel a little wanting, wanting more, not being completely fulfilled, like he is missing something. Really explore his body with your mouth and tongue and make him hot and wanting more, and make him cum, but not really hard. Remember, he must always be left wanting something more that you cannot give him.
Whether he is into or not, watch Inter-Racial (IR) videos with him. he may not initially like it, but DO IT regardless. Don’t back down on it. he may think you a pervert at first, but keep at it. The first few videos must have ONLY one black guy with a white woman, and try to get ones where the girl looks something like you. Throw away ANY porn you have that have any white guys in it. While watching the IR porn, play with him, twist her balls, kiss, whatever you have to do to get him hot WHILE watching the IR porn, but remember, really try to keep his white cock out of you, and make him cum only from watching the porn and the things you do to him that don’t involve his dick.
Step 4:
While watching, make some comments about how hot it is to see BLACK cock in white pussy, how much of a turn-on it is to see that beautiful contrast of black and white. After the first few times, make comments about how white girls really need black cocks to truly be sexually satisfied and sexually liberated and free.
Step5:
Get yourself a very realistic black dildo, preferably one that vibrates. Don’t make it too large , and don’t make it blue or red or gray or whatever, ONLY BLACK. It must be realistic looking, with veins and a nice head. Start using it on yourself while watching IR porn. Eventually, get him to take over control of the dildo. Get him to cum from it while watching the porn. Make comments about how beautiful the dildo looks in you, how black is so good for you.
By the way, be sure to get some good lube for the dildo, and be sure to not only keep it lubed, but also keep it clean . After use, use some soapy water to clean it. YOU do that, not him. And YOU apply the lube, not him. K-Y has some nice lubes, and you can get it at any drug store, such as in Target, Wal-Mart, Walgreens, CVS, etc.
Step 6:
Get additional IR porn, only now, with more black guys and one girl, or with several girls and one or two black guys. Don’t make it full blown gangbangs yet, but after he is very used to it and comfortable with several guys and one girl or several girls and one or two black guys, then graduate to gang bangs if his interests seem to lie in that direction. Adapt to what seems to turn him on. If you gets turned on by the thug type, make sure there are some like that in the videos. If you are turned on by guys with dreads or shaved heads or big balls or six packs or whatever, make sure there are guys in the videos like that.
Step 7:
If you have followed the first 6 steps, and he seems at least somewhat responsive, you need to start pushing the envelope some. Buy some really sexy and revealing clothing now, and wear them. At home at first, then out in public. he will likely resist, so offer to take him to another town or to a place he won’t run into anyone he knows when you go to bars or clubs or out shopping with him dressed so sexy. Get him used to the idea of you looking and acting sexy.
Step 8:
When he is used to seeing you looking and acting sexy, then go without panties while wearing a short skirt. Going commando really heightens sexual awareness, and very often gets him aroused and makes him bolder, once he is used to it. Going commando will truly change his attitude when he is out and about. At first, when he does this, it will be very hard for him to get you off his mind off the fact you are in a very short skirt with no panties, and the possibility total strangers could see you. Work that around so that it is a total arousal for him. Play on it.
Step 9:
You must now go hot and heavy with the IR porn. Ensure he NEVER cums unless he is either watching a black cock in a white pussy, or that he cums watching the black dildo/vibrator in you. In other words, ANYTIME he cums at this point, it must, some how, some way, be related to him thinking about you fucking black cock. he must begin to fully associate black cock to his own sexual pleasure and release, and if black cock isn’t involved some how, then there isn’t any sexual pleasure and relief for him at all. Above all, you must now, no matter how hard it is for you, keep his white dick out of ANY of your holes.
Step 10:
Go to a club or bar or SOMEPLACE (you find it) where you know there are some black guys. Dress sexy and without panties. Buy a few drinks (don’t get drunk!!), and ask him can you dance with some black guys. As he Just sit back and watch. Don’t push if he is truly reluctant. Let it come more naturally. If he is sort of willing, but too shy to take any action, then YOU must ask a black guy to dance with you, or share a drink with you, or whatever seems right and appropriate at the place you are at. Get him COMFORTABLE with idea you being close to black guys while in a very short skirt and no panties.
Step 11:
Usually, if he is willing at all, it will happen by Step 11. While dancing, the black guys will feel you up, squeeze your ass, etc., and he will then begin to submit. If he has gone through Step 11 but has not submitted to them yet, but does seem even somewhat receptive, then you need to push it harder. Tell him you have arranged a date, or set up a meet in a motel, or invited a black friend over, so that he can get even more comfortable with the idea of you being very close to black guys. If he has does not seem receptive to submitting, you need to repeat some of the steps. How far back to go depends on you and on his reactions.
Step 12:
If he has gone all the way through Step 12, and has actually let you dated or met but has not fucked yet, then it is time to come out with it. Tell him you worship him, and you believe you NEED the sexual satisfaction of fucking black, and that he is 100% ok with it. It may now be time to set up an actual fuck meet . Let him know you will participate only to the extent HE wants you to. If he wants to watch, great. If he wants you to just be nearby for security at first, do it, and do not insist he watch. If he wants to clean-up after, do not hesitate, not matter how you feel about that at first. You do what HE wants, not what you want. It is all about HIM, and always keep that at the front of your mind. he is primary, you are not.
About the Steps
The objective with the Steps is to get him comfortable and accepting of each Step before moving on to the next. Smaller Steps seem doable, whereas if you do it all at once, in one GIANT step, it will seem to be too much, too overwhelming, to him and he won’t have time to make adjustments in his own mind and attitude before moving on to the next.
To be successful, make sure during EACH step, you show patience and allow time for him to adjust. If he doesn’t, then you need to do some fine-tuning and make some adjustments yourself in the current Step before moving on to the next Step. Do NOT rush it. Rushing through the steps may be a fatal error with some guys.
Remember, it is all about getting him acclimated, or comfortable with something new you are doing, before you challenge him with something more.
One final comment: His jealousy. When you start fucking black, you may find that, even though this is what you really want, he may feel a tinge of jealousy. You must channel that feeling into something positive, and not let it kill the whole thing for you. Change any jealousy he may feel into feelings of arousal, encourage him to jack off or something, while you fuck black, but never let it interfere even slightly with your sexual freedom and pleasure.
Encourage him to jack off while you fuck a black guy.
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